Hope you’re going well in your love life and if not and you’re getting problems in handling it then don’t worry just continue reading and I am sure this will help you to build your relationship more strong. In this post, I shared 40+ Golden Rules for Relationship- To build it Healthy & Strong in 2019. I hope you will like it so let’s move forward.
What is the Relationship and Rules for Relationship?
The relationship is something that is really close to your heart. You love someone and get attached to that person, this bond of love is known as a relationship. The rules for relationship is important because you should fix some standards to run a relationship smoothly and these kinds of standards are known as rules for relationship.
I have categorized rules for relationship in 4 parts:
- 1. Argument rules
- 2. Understanding rules
- 3. Bonus
- 4. Standard rules
# 14 Argument rules
These rules will help you to solve your issues, follow these rules in your relationship:-
1. Never go to bed angry
Don’t go to bed for sleep without solving the matter because sleeping in anger and bad thoughts In mind is never been a good thing so just solve it as soon as possible.
2. Never ever compare with your ex
One thing you should always keep in mind that every person and every relationship is different. You can’t compare it with your past, never say things like “He did this and you don’t”. In short, Never compare both of them.
3. Don’t argue and if do then after getting sort out just keep the relation same as before
Try to stay away from arguments but still if you get involved then let it clear smoothly and you must take care that the matter of argument shouldn’t affect your relationship negatively. Just be the same as before the matter.
4. Never take each other for granted
I always repeat this line in my every post on relationships because if you start taking each other for granted then trust me there is no way to solve your matters. Always care for each as same as you did before.
5. Make sure your relationship doesn’t suffer from time gaps
Communicate regularly and keep your relationship alive. Even after an argument, never stop talking, you may fight, you may argue but at least talk because time gaps can ruin your relationship completely.
6. Find your own mistakes before your partner
Accept the thing you also can make mistake. Start finding your own mistakes first rest you can do further. Never start blaming without thinking.
7. Apologize is the key to solve an argument or a fight
Feeling sorry and realizing your mistake can solve a fight or an argument very quickly but you must be honest this time. Say sorry if you actually mean it not to just enclose the matter.
8. Keep control on what you say
Think before you say because at the time of argument there is a different situation and you have to keep control over what you say.
9. Solve problems as they arise
I am repeating this once more, solve the problem as it arises. Don’t wait for another one to talk first just start the conversation and end the issue.
10. Never curse each other
The decision of making relationship was taken by both of you and you both have to maintain it nicely. And if can’t do this properly then you don’t have any right to curse each other.
11. Rule of pacifying
If one is annoyed then just pacify him/her until he’s not pacified completely. Annoying and pacifying is the most important part of a relationship, don’t get irritated with it just try to enjoy.
12. Tit for tat is not allowed in the relationship
If one is angry then another one has to pacify them. if nobody will say something then how can a matter solve? If they don’t talk first then you start talking and try to solve it.
13. End an argument as soon as possible, Hugging each other must be your last step
Try to solve your issues quickly before it arises a grand disaster for both of you. Hugging each other must be your last step of discussion.
14. Listen to your partner’s concerns and complaints without judgment
Just listen carefully what your partner is saying and don’t judge each other without understanding their point of view. And having a conversation can end a fight because not having a conversation only increase differences between relationships.
# 14 Understanding rules
These understanding rules will help you to understand your partner better, follow them:-
1. Learn how to manage differences
You must know how to manage your differences and how to come closer again. This is the key because if you well how to solve your differences then you can easily run a healthy relationship.
2. Try to understand each other point of views
Don’t impose your own thinking on each other. In fact, try to understand the point of view of one another and do respect them.
3. Never judge, assume and accuse, just ask them
Never assume something from your own mind just ask them what you want to ask because assuming, judging and accusing creates misunderstanding nothing else.
4. Do equal efforts from both sides
No relationship can run from one side it needs efforts from both sides. Just like we can’t clap with one hand it is the same we can’t run a smooth relationship from one side.
5. Know your needs and speak up for them clearly
The relationship is not a guessing game you need to talk to them clearly about what you want, you need not hesitate or anything, you can clearly speak up to them about your needs. It will help you to better understand each other.
6. Cooperate, Cooperate, Cooperate
The more you cooperate with each other, the more you go along together. Changing is good if it is done for a better purpose and always remember one thing if you actually want to be together then you have to make some changes in you according to each other.
7. Know your partner’s beliefs about the relationship
To understand better each other try to know more about each other like what your partner thinks about love, about the relationship and about you.
8. Give more expect less rule
Always try to give more than to receive. If you do something good for somebody it will you peace whether they care or not but at least you’ll remain satisfied that you didn’t do anything wrong. Spreading happiness is more wonderful than seeking for your own smile.
9. Maintain your interest in each other don’t get bored
Never get bored with each other, keep it interesting always. Go outside, have fun and enjoy each other’s company as you used to do before.
10. Believe that every relationship is different and has its own ups and downs
Try to understand your own relationship rather than to compare with it to others. Every relationship has its different entity don’t try to mix them, keep it exclusive.
11. Value each other and their interest
Give equal importance to each other, value each other’s thoughts, interests, and dreams and you just have to support each other the same way they are.
12. If you don’t like something your partner is doing, ask about it and why they’re doing it
If your partner is doing something and you are not getting what he or she is doing then just ask about it and ask the reason why they’re doing this.
13. Respect, Respect, Respect
You both have to respect each other. Even if you’re angry don’t say words that hurt someone’s self-respect. Respect for each other is the first motive of a relationship. Forehead kisses are always for the sign of respect.
14. Accept that no one is perfect
This is a true fact that nobody can be in the whole world so accept this. If you make a mistake then accept it and say sorry for it. You as individuals are not perfect but you can try to be perfect as a couple.
# 8 Bonus Tips
- 1. Always give proper time and attention to each other.
- 2. Trust your instincts, sometimes they tell you before something bad happens. Most of the time your instincts are true.
- 3. Money should never be a reason for your differences, Always Split your bills.
- 4. Don’t depend too much on each other.
- 5. Build a proper intimacy between you.
- 6. Giving Compliment your partner regularly helps to maintain interest between you.
- 7. Celebrate the special days like Birthdays, anniversaries, etc.
- 8. Closeness builds with honesty, remember your partner is not a mind reader so tell them everything with greater honesty.
# Standard rules
- Stay loyal to each other
- Love each other
- Care for each other
- Learn to negotiate or Compromise
- Give space to each other
- Understand each other
If you want to read the explanation for standard rules then you may read by clicking here.
Best relationships always bring out the best in you. All relations are not perfect but healthy relations bring you up not down. Always love your partner. I hope you liked the article on “40+ Golden Rules for Relationship- To build it Healthy & Strong in 2019”. I always try my best to give you a piece of advice, just follow the steps of rules for relationship, express love and make your relationship healthy, strong and evergreen.
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